Breaking Up Your Ex’s New Relationship

Mariam was with Jide for eight long years before she rudely broke it off when she caught him with another girl, hoping that he would call to apologise and things would go back to normal. He didn’t. He’s still with the new girl and she’s wondering what she did wrong. Now she wants vengeance. She…

When Love is Not Enough

Love is always not enough to keep a couple together. Some say if we have love, we can make it. But there’s a reason why divorce rates are on the rise. Most divorcees are still completely in love with each other. It’s the living together forever part that takes a toll on the relationship. The…

A Story of FlashBacks

Try to keep up.   ‘Where have the good days gone?’ This thought ran like tom chasing jerry, round and round in her mind. Standing outside Peter’s house, she could still hear the laughing and music, the oohs and aahhs lovers make when together. Oh it burned and pained.   ‘Where have the good days…

Getting Revenge on Your Siblings

I’ve met some friends who are quiet, reserved and never raise their voice no matter what. When I met their family, I discovered they were all the same: quiet and reserved. Me I don’t know what planet they came from because in my world, which happens to be the real world, families are not quiet….

Should I Ask Him Out?

Should a woman be bold enough to walk up to a guy and ask him out? You know how it is. She’s  been crushing on him for quite a while but he hardly seems to notice her. Maybe he does notice her but he’s too shy to come to her. So the two of them…

Cheap Romantic Dates

Have a great Date without spending a dime   The boring and stale couples are the couples that have failed to try out new things together and have continued to do the same old things over and over again. No wonder the relationship has become boring and stale. You don’t have to go to a…

Why They Say You Have a Bad Attitude

Has anyone ever told you that you have an attitude problem and you couldn’t understand why they said that, considering that you’re a kind, sweet and patient person who’s soft spoken and always willing to help? Maybe you’ve been told more than once and you’re starting to wonder if it’s true. Chances are that it…

How to Be Instagram Famous

Delete all your old pictures. You are giving yourself a whole new life, a new identity, a new face, a new personality. So delete all those pictures with black and knobby knees, awful brows, bend-down-select clothes,shoes and bags, un-tushed background of mosquito nets filled with cobwebs and old, peeling painted walls, etc. Some of those…

Go From Girlfriend to Wife

You know that friend that always disappoints whenever the boyfriend calls? The friend that’s ready to abandon all plans just because the boyfriend called? The friend that rushes off every weekend to cook and clean for him, while warming his bed at night? The friend that was ready to borrow just to give to him?…

Overcoming Fear of the Dark

It started like a joke. You were always frightened in the dark and could hardly sleep if some kind of light was not kept on all night. Now you’re old (older than me) and you still can’t sleep in a dark room, alone. You’ve turned into a womaniser or a man addict because people don’t…